Finding my ice cream
I made that phrase up a couple of years ago to describe the journey recent graduates go through to find their niche. It’s the journey to find out what you really want to do with your degree after you graduate, if you haven’t already got that figured out. Ice cream sounds good right now. No! Focus.
Okay, so finding my ice cream has been difficult so far. I didn’t start seriously looking for jobs around my degree until July of this year. I moved up to Washington with my older brother and his family (it was his idea!) to see what I could get out of Washington. All the advertising agencies are in the Seattle area, so that’s where I began my search. My sister-in-law told me that I should try and find Administrative Assistant positions at advertising agencies I see myself working at or would want to work at. So I thought, hey, that’s a great idea! Since Administrative Assistant experience is what I have most of on my resume, then that is where I’ll start. I found a lot of nothing. Nobody seemed to get back to me or wasn’t hiring. So what do you do? I thought going to the state you want to work in and looking for jobs while there would be effective. It was effective for awhile because I landed an internship at an entertainment magazine in Seattle, but I ended things prematurely due to lack of relevance. I also landed an internship at a radio representation firm in Bellevue, which has turned out to be somewhat of a learning experience. Both opportunities I landed not by applying online but via networking—using other people’s contacts.
Now, since I’m moving back to Oregon in less than two weeks, I have to get a full-time/part-time job. Preferably I’d like a full-time job and a stable M-F 9-5 type schedule. That makes things easier since I lack my own transportation presently. It’s all good though. Cars go on sale all the time. I’ll get my chance. I just have to adjust my plan again. Having a plan going into this journey helps a little bit, but I seem to always go off the plan’s path. I’m leaving Washington because nothing has come up that will cause me to stay and living with my brother has been interesting to say the least. I think about Texas a lot lately. Just to go visit for a week as a sort of a mini-vacation is about $2500-$3000, which includes board, food, plane ticket, transportation while I’m there and extra spending money. It a’int cheap. I’d rather save that much for a car and then drive to Texas or something.
I will find my ice cream. I just need to figure out which flavor I want, where I want to eat it and how long I’m willing to eat it. That sounded weird. I know what I’m talking about. I have to stop thinking this journey is hard and tiresome and no fun at all, which is partly true. I have to see this as an opportunity to get out there and see what I can get of life. It’s going to happen. I just have to wait and see what’s going to happen next.